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不管你有沒有男朋友,有沒有女朋友,都過來把它讀完,寫的真是那麼回事
........
你發覺了嗎? 


愛 的感覺,總是在一開始覺得很甜蜜,

總覺得多一個人陪,多一個人幫你分擔,

你終於不再孤單了,至少有一個人想著你,

戀著你,不論做什麼事情,

只要能一起,就是好的....


........... .................... ................................ ........................................... ......................................................


....但是慢慢的,隨著彼此的認識愈深,

你開始發現了對方的缺點,

於是問題一個接著一個發生,

你開始煩,累,甚至想要逃避,

有人說
 情就像在撿石頭,

總想撿到一個適合自己的,

但是你又如何知道什麼時候能夠撿到呢?

他/她適合你,那你又適合他/她嗎?


其實,
 情就像磨石子一樣,

或許剛撿到的時候,你不是那麼的滿意,

但是記住人是有彈性的,

很多事情是可以改變的,

只要你有心,有勇氣,

與其到處去撿未知的石頭,

還不如好好的將自己已經擁有的石頭磨亮,你開始磨了嗎?

很多人以為是因為感情淡了,所以人才會變得懶惰。

錯!


其實是人先被惰性征服,所以感情才會變淡的。

在某個聚餐的場合,有人提議多吃點蝦對身體好,
  
這時候有個中年男人忽然說「十年前,當我老婆還是我的女朋友的時候,她說要吃十隻蝦,我就剝二十只給她!
  
現在,如果她要我幫她剝蝦殼,開玩笑!我連幫她脫衣服都沒興趣了,還剝蝦殼咧!」
  
聽到了嗎?明白了嗎?
  
難怪越來越多人只想要談一輩子的戀  卻遲遲不肯走入婚姻。
  
因為,婚姻容易讓人變得懶惰。
  
如果每個人都
  
懶得講話、
  
懶得傾聽、
  
懶得製造驚喜、
  
懶得溫柔體貼,
  
那麼夫妻或是情人之間,
  
又怎麼會不漸行漸遠漸無聲呢?


所以請記住:
  
有活力的愛情,
  
是需要適度殷勤灌溉的,
  
談戀愛,更是不可以偷懶的喔!
   

有一對情侶,相約下班後去用餐,逛街,

可是女孩因為公司會議而延誤了,

當她冒著雨趕到的時候已經遲到了30 多分鐘,

他的男朋友很不高興的說:

你每次都這樣,現在我什麼心情也沒了,

我以後再也不會等你了!

剎那間,女孩終於決堤崩潰了,

她心裡在想:或許,他們再也沒有未來了.....


同樣的在同一個地點,另一對情侶也面臨同樣的處境;

女孩趕到的時候也遲到了半個鐘頭,

他的男朋友說:“我想你一定忙壞了吧!”

接著他為女孩拭去臉上的雨水,並且脫去外套蓋在女孩身上

此刻,女孩流淚了

但是流過她臉頰的淚卻是溫馨的。


你體會到了嗎?


其實  ,恨往往只是在我們的一念之間!

 不僅要懂得寬容更要及時,

很多事可能只是在於你心境的轉變罷了!


懂了嗎?


當有個人  上你,而你也覺得他不錯。

那並不代表你會選擇他。


我們總說:“我要找一個自己很    的人,才會談戀  

但是當對方問你,怎樣才算是很
   的時候,

你卻無法回答他,因為你自己也不知道。


沒錯,

我們總是以為,我們會找到一個自己很    的人。

可是後來,當我們猛然回首,我們才會發覺自己曾經多麼天真。

假如從來沒有開始,你怎麼知道自己會不會很
   那個人呢?

其實,很
   的感覺,是要在一起經歷了許多事情之後才會發現的。

或許每個人都希望能夠找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侶,


所以,還是仔細看看身邊的人吧!


他或許已經等你很久了。


當你
 一個人的時候,  到八分絕對剛剛好。

所有的期待和希望都只有七八分,剩下兩三分用來
 自己。

如果你還繼續
 得更多,很可能會給對方沉重的壓力,讓彼此喘不過氣來,

完全喪失了
  情的樂趣。


所以請記住 :

喝酒不要超過六分醉,

吃飯不要超過七分飽,

愛一個人不要超過八分


如果你也正在為愛迷惘,或許下面這段話可以給你一些啟示

愛一個人,要了解,也要開解;

要道歉,也要道謝;

要認錯,也要改錯;

要體貼,也要體諒;

是接受,而不是忍受;

是寬容,而不是縱容;

是支持,而不是支配;

是慰問,而不是質問;

是傾訴,而不是控訴;

是難忘,而不是遺忘;

是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代;

是為對方默默祈求,

而不是向對方諸多要求;

可以浪漫,但不要浪費;

`*不要隨便牽手,


`*更不要隨便放手。

Apa Reaksi Anda...

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